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Sooo yeah.... I think i'm just gonna be hiding in my pillow fort for the next few days...Also i'm really proud of the garage I have absolutely no idea why.
So if you wanna see the really heavy page (Cw : abuse) early its here for my $10 patreons https://www.patreon.com/posts/shine.....e-287-35420569 if not it's not the most ideal page to read on good friday HAHAH...I really didnt plan the schedule correct. Happy happy joyjoy
Elly belongs to

Sooo yeah.... I think i'm just gonna be hiding in my pillow fort for the next few days...Also i'm really proud of the garage I have absolutely no idea why.
So if you wanna see the really heavy page (Cw : abuse) early its here for my $10 patreons https://www.patreon.com/posts/shine.....e-287-35420569 if not it's not the most ideal page to read on good friday HAHAH...I really didnt plan the schedule correct. Happy happy joyjoy
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It wasn't so much lying as it was adult conceit. Parents often don't take into account the future of their children defying their definition of a good life path. They say "you can be anything" while pining for class climbing, so what they actually mean is "no challenge is too big if you're willing to face it". With the exception of explicit abuse and manipulation, parenting has little villainy and a lot of mistakes.
Family is not one of my core values; when I move out, I would much rather live on my own and keep my money focused on bills and food than get married and have kids, and I think my parents have a hard time accepting that. I think they also have a hard time with the fact that I never want to spend time with them.
It's sad though when a parent is TOLD that they are doing damage, and they don't listen because that's the way THEY were raised and they are 'okay.'
I STILL deal with the damage my father did to me. I'm 62 years old, and it hasn't gone away, and I doubt it ever will go away. It's ingrained into us, unfortunately.
I STILL deal with the damage my father did to me. I'm 62 years old, and it hasn't gone away, and I doubt it ever will go away. It's ingrained into us, unfortunately.
Part of me is REALLY hoping Star reunites with Alex later on and catches up. It's clear the family is fractured and it'd be nice to see one side get a solid opposition to the asshole father. Even better if the remaining brother also join Star and Alex in telling their dad to go screw.
I know that feeling of having a parent say one thing but really means another. It hurts so much. My own parents did that to me. It hurts more than words can even be said. I haven't spoken to my bio father in several years or my ex-step-dad in over two decades. I rarely keep in touch with my mother who is a workaholic. It is never easy to remember things.. only to be hurt by their true colors. *snugs Star tightly.*
No wonder you said these last few pages have been upsetting, sort of apprehensive as to whether I'll be able to not weep like a little girl that's just scraped her knee when the next page lands.
It seems a lot of us here are familiar with parents not being the superheroes we see them as when we're younger so... *offers safe-for-distancing virtual hug* (no obligation on the hug, naturally, but it's there if you want it).
It seems a lot of us here are familiar with parents not being the superheroes we see them as when we're younger so... *offers safe-for-distancing virtual hug* (no obligation on the hug, naturally, but it's there if you want it).
Poor little star!! When parents say things that aren't true at that young age, the newer generation grows up blindly so to speak. I hate when parents aren't straight up honest but at that young age, you shouldn't lie to them no matter how hard it is. I'm not a parent myself but I have taken care of my cousins and nieces and nephews to learn that through and through.
Star.. It's going to be ok. WE ARE HERE FOR YOU!!!
*hugs* Stay happy.
Star.. It's going to be ok. WE ARE HERE FOR YOU!!!
*hugs* Stay happy.
I'm sorry... I'm really sorry, but...
Kick, punch, it's all in the mind. If you wanna test me, I'm sure you'll find - that all the things I'll teach ya, is sure to beat ya - nevertheless you'll get a lesson from teacher, now...
THAT'S ALL I CAN THINK OF WITH THE PUNCHING COMMENT, OKAY?
Kick, punch, it's all in the mind. If you wanna test me, I'm sure you'll find - that all the things I'll teach ya, is sure to beat ya - nevertheless you'll get a lesson from teacher, now...
THAT'S ALL I CAN THINK OF WITH THE PUNCHING COMMENT, OKAY?
From what I gathered from the last page, stars eldest brother Alex had a close relationship with his baby sister, from that nightmare page about him has givin an idea of death from a illness, from what I can now gather is that his father and mother don’t approve or support his life choices, whenever they may be sexual orientation or another choice not approved in his fathers eyes while star sees his choice in a positive light that isn’t harmful to him or others around him, I know that situation, I’m not gay but my own little space isn’t seen as a positive towards my family, not to a extreme as Alex’s family (sometimes tbh) but still if it dosen’t impact physical growth and development and dosen’t bring physical harm it should be supported, only when it’s something illegal or harmful should it not be supported.
I see all these negative comments about parents, but there are parents who really do mean it when they say that too. Nothing in this world is just simple "black and white" or "good and evil". My own parents said something similar to me before and they actually meant it. I know because I'm sure they were hoping I would get married and have biological kids. Instead I'm LGBT in more than one sense and in a same sex relationship that has been the best relationship I've ever been in, yet my parents still love and support me.
Anyway, I know in this situation with Star things did not turn out so well, but my main point was just that not all parents who say these things are going to turn out to be jerks, to put it lightly. Also I want to send out hugs to anyone who has had to experience such events in their life, you have good things out there in the world to help you, even if it's a stranger online extending their arms in kindness for a hug. I just hope I can help spread a little comfort/kindness, especially in these trying times.
Anyway, I know in this situation with Star things did not turn out so well, but my main point was just that not all parents who say these things are going to turn out to be jerks, to put it lightly. Also I want to send out hugs to anyone who has had to experience such events in their life, you have good things out there in the world to help you, even if it's a stranger online extending their arms in kindness for a hug. I just hope I can help spread a little comfort/kindness, especially in these trying times.
I think genuinely parents want the best for their kids. Stars dad included, everything he does its (as he perceives) to give his kids the life he thinks they'd benefit from. He's far from perfect but he thinks he's coming from a place of kindness in the long term helping them to be a better adult
As some people have said, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Do I think my dad is a bad guy? No. He could absolutely be a hundred times worse. Can I see the parts where he was truly trying to be a good dad for his son? Absolutely! I may have most of my good memories of him in childhood but even as an adult he's stepped up as an amazing dad at times, the 'goodness' from MY perspective is merely marred by his worldview and that he's the kind of guy who has absolutely no filter so whatever he thinks is what's gonna be said, as bluntly as possible.
People can try their best to BE good people and still make a ton of mistakes over the years and traumatize their children. We can recognize the good attempts as what they are while understanding for our own sanity we need to remain distant
People can try their best to BE good people and still make a ton of mistakes over the years and traumatize their children. We can recognize the good attempts as what they are while understanding for our own sanity we need to remain distant
Reading between the lines...
You can be anything you wanna be (provided it fits within my expectations and is societally acceptable) so long as you put your whole heart into it (and it isn't weird or whatever), and me and Mummy will support you (unless you defy me).
We will love you no matter what (not valid in certain parts of the UK).
I don't know if Star's dad just ended up making a lot of bad choices or if he really is a bad guy, but I never understood parents who can accept conditional love. We don't have to agree and I don't expect anyone to approve of all of my choices, but at the end of the day, family is supposed to stick together. I'm sure there's a lot of complicated history in there, but at minimum I would hope her father could at least respect her choices and her sibling's even if he does not share them. At least for now, it's not too late for him to fix it, if he wants to, that is.
You can be anything you wanna be (provided it fits within my expectations and is societally acceptable) so long as you put your whole heart into it (and it isn't weird or whatever), and me and Mummy will support you (unless you defy me).
We will love you no matter what (not valid in certain parts of the UK).
I don't know if Star's dad just ended up making a lot of bad choices or if he really is a bad guy, but I never understood parents who can accept conditional love. We don't have to agree and I don't expect anyone to approve of all of my choices, but at the end of the day, family is supposed to stick together. I'm sure there's a lot of complicated history in there, but at minimum I would hope her father could at least respect her choices and her sibling's even if he does not share them. At least for now, it's not too late for him to fix it, if he wants to, that is.
i think one of the bigger issues behind this is i don't think her dad is trying to be hurtful. stubborn and unwilling to accept change, definitely and that makes the end result very damaging.
but to consider for a moment even comparing our parents generation to our own generation currently... things like gender identity and expression were not as well known when our parents were growing up. Like, i'm sure it EXISTED but we didn't have a name for it then.
I think the problem here is this... Culture and Society evolves and grows the more we grow to understand the world and ourselves. Star's dad in this represents a narrow world view and unwillingness to change with the world and sticking to traditions of the past regardless of how outdated that view is. and that is straining their relationship with not only Star, but this Alex as well.
that said.... the act cutting someone out of your family for being different from what you expected IS pretty low, regardless of the reason. and I would still classify them as a bad person in my books.
but to consider for a moment even comparing our parents generation to our own generation currently... things like gender identity and expression were not as well known when our parents were growing up. Like, i'm sure it EXISTED but we didn't have a name for it then.
I think the problem here is this... Culture and Society evolves and grows the more we grow to understand the world and ourselves. Star's dad in this represents a narrow world view and unwillingness to change with the world and sticking to traditions of the past regardless of how outdated that view is. and that is straining their relationship with not only Star, but this Alex as well.
that said.... the act cutting someone out of your family for being different from what you expected IS pretty low, regardless of the reason. and I would still classify them as a bad person in my books.
I think that taking out your anger out on a punching bag is a great idea. It saved me from doing a few things I would have regretted. People even said a few times, they thought I was going to take out my anger on someone, but I kept my cool, and asked me how I did it. Punching bags never fail.
Woah, Star I think you need to chill out, it’s not good to let these feelings get to you. I mean letting your anger out onto the punching bag is ok, but I think to calm down for a bit. Maybe give
sweetmanda a call

might I mention that's one hell of a punch, I train with punching bags all the time and I have never seen a bag flex like that( I know this is a comic but it shows her strength). I can't wait to see 287, not because it's bad, but because it'll mean so much to you for drawing it. Nice job!
All this talk about sheds reminded me of this old skit:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CA8xTGP_M8g
Enjoy!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CA8xTGP_M8g
Enjoy!
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