
Call It What You Want Part 2 - Page 12
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That's called a panic attack, Bradley. You ought to be careful with those.
And yes, these things can create wedges in people's relationships ;<
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No one should ever hate family. At least not ones parents. Without them no one of us would be even existing on this planet to be able to feel such nonsense as hate. That last part I mean in general.
Hate makes no sense. Feeling hate is like drinking a little sip of poison every day and hoping your enemy will die by this.
We all should overcome the feeling of hate.
If people do hurting stuff to one another only love will let us heal. Love will give us the strenght to listen to their point of view and perhaps understand why they do such things that hurt us - perhaps even without them not realising they hurt us. If they also train themselves to act by love they might also understand our point of view why their actions hurt us.
Perhaps we find will out that the parents have good reasons to act like they act and also that Francis has good reasons to act like he does.
We should not rush into conclusions here and directly blame the parents as monsters. I haven't seen them doing stuff to give them the label of pure evil like you seem to do with your words. Patience and more information about what is going on is needed here.
So let's breath and be patient. And calm. And let's be led by love in all situations in our life.
Hate makes no sense. Feeling hate is like drinking a little sip of poison every day and hoping your enemy will die by this.
We all should overcome the feeling of hate.
If people do hurting stuff to one another only love will let us heal. Love will give us the strenght to listen to their point of view and perhaps understand why they do such things that hurt us - perhaps even without them not realising they hurt us. If they also train themselves to act by love they might also understand our point of view why their actions hurt us.
Perhaps we find will out that the parents have good reasons to act like they act and also that Francis has good reasons to act like he does.
We should not rush into conclusions here and directly blame the parents as monsters. I haven't seen them doing stuff to give them the label of pure evil like you seem to do with your words. Patience and more information about what is going on is needed here.
So let's breath and be patient. And calm. And let's be led by love in all situations in our life.
I got from your words, that you rather leave people behind and running from the work of fixing problems than getting along with people you have a conflict with or they have with you. It is okay to pause an argument to recharge and get new strength for the next try to be at peace with ourself and others that did harm to us from our point of view. But in the end we have to face our difficulties in life to solve them. Problems always run faster than we are ever be able to.
Please be so kind and read my text again. Guess you didn't understand a word of what I just said. I mean that with no offense at all. Perhaps you try to set your inner conflict with your parents or whomever aside and try to get the point I tried to tell here. Perhaps you decide not to do. Either way it is okay as you decided to do. But in my humble opinion it would be better to try to understand and train inner muscles to be able to act as a problem solver not a runner from them.
Please be so kind and read my text again. Guess you didn't understand a word of what I just said. I mean that with no offense at all. Perhaps you try to set your inner conflict with your parents or whomever aside and try to get the point I tried to tell here. Perhaps you decide not to do. Either way it is okay as you decided to do. But in my humble opinion it would be better to try to understand and train inner muscles to be able to act as a problem solver not a runner from them.
spoken like someone who didn't deal with an abusive alcoholic and drug addicted father. Some relationships are *not* worth holding on to. i don't give a single fuck about what *you* think i should do, or your opinion on how i deal with my problems. please spare me your nonsensical "YoU sHoUlDn'T hAtE aNyOnE" spiel.
Wrong. Mine was about 10 years an alcoholic before I learned some psychology in school and finally realized what the problem was at home that long time. Then I decided to help my father not to drink himself to an early death because of the reasons I stated above about parents. That was about 20 years ago and I am happy that he is still alive and we were able to fix our relationship and be able to look back to that bad times in our lifes and were able to forgive. The past is the past and stopped to affect us. It was a long way and much work to be able to say so without lying to myself that this part of the past and his bad behaviour back then has no bad influence on me anymore nowadays.
So spare me your hatred. I am not your enemy and you don't need to use that silly passive aggressive capital letter small letter internet meme. Let's stick to grown up behaviour and fair treatment of each other here, ok?
You are right. It is your life and you can do whatever you want. I just stated stuff that turned out to be good for me in life after a long time doing it wrong focussing on what went wrong instead of making things right again. I just wanted to help.
You do you - I got that. So I will leave this conversation in peace now and wish you all the best in your life, Samuel.
Good bye.
So spare me your hatred. I am not your enemy and you don't need to use that silly passive aggressive capital letter small letter internet meme. Let's stick to grown up behaviour and fair treatment of each other here, ok?
You are right. It is your life and you can do whatever you want. I just stated stuff that turned out to be good for me in life after a long time doing it wrong focussing on what went wrong instead of making things right again. I just wanted to help.
You do you - I got that. So I will leave this conversation in peace now and wish you all the best in your life, Samuel.
Good bye.
no, you are pushing a "you shouldn't hate your parents. you should try to fix them." spiel when that doesn't work for everyone. My father was a bastard, there wasn't a single day in my childhood where i don't remember him being plastered, or an outright asshole, either to me, or my mother.
I'm so glad that your father was receptive to getting help, but mine is not, and i don't give a damn if he gets help or not because i don't want him in my life and don't you dare presume to talk to me as if you know me, or how i approach relationships.
I spent the first fifteen years of my life being extremely miserable because i had to deal with my asshole of a father, and you dare tell me that i should have made an effort to fix his problems? Can you even comprehend how insensitive and rude that is?
Please piss off and don't ever talk to me again.
I'm so glad that your father was receptive to getting help, but mine is not, and i don't give a damn if he gets help or not because i don't want him in my life and don't you dare presume to talk to me as if you know me, or how i approach relationships.
I spent the first fifteen years of my life being extremely miserable because i had to deal with my asshole of a father, and you dare tell me that i should have made an effort to fix his problems? Can you even comprehend how insensitive and rude that is?
Please piss off and don't ever talk to me again.
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