True Manliness by James F. Clarke (A Powerful Speech for Young Men)

I needed to hear that.
I do not have a father who told me how to be a good man.
I had books. I had stories. I have dead fathers who tought me beyond their graves.
Thank you for giving them a voice to speak to their unkown sons, for they have no one to turn to.
This gave me hope. Thank you.

Kindness, honesty, integrity, courage ...values which are sorely missing from many today.

This video made me think about my Dad. He was always imposing when I was a child. Not in a bad way. He seemed like someone who was best not to be angered. Who would fight off a bear with his bare hands if he had to in order to protect me. As a child, he seemed strong, likely due to the physical demands of his work. But he was nurturing and always encouraged me to walk a righteous path. When our community couldn't find a Santa Claus for the Christmas Party, he reluctantly volunteered to put on the suit and play the roll. In the end, he enjoyed it, maybe more than we realized. He volunteered every year since. Every December 1st, he would sit outside our local pharmacy to collect donations of cash or toys. He took the role seriously. Always suiting up before going to a Christmas Party. Never wanting to risk a child seeing Santa without his beard. He did this for many years, ensuring there was always ample toys so every child got several presents. He would visit the children in the neighborhood as Santa, especially families in financial hardships. He worked with our Non-Profit organizations to improve our community. When he did a charitable act, he never asked for payment. As Santa, he would simply ask them to donate toys or money, never setting a price. He only asked them to offer an amount they could, though he never asked anything of the poor.
Then came Covid. Dad disappeared from the public, they didn't know why. They figured due to Covid Lockdowns, he must have felt it best to stay home and not possibly spread the virus. In truth, he contracted Covid in Mid to early November from his best friend. By the 22nd or 23rd, he was in the hospital. By this time, we all tested positive for Covid and isolated until the beginning of December. Those in the community knew what was happening and offered any assistance to Mom. Dad eventually went onto a ventilator. By December 14th, his brain was starved of oxygen due to viral fluid building up in his lungs. Care was withdrawn and family was actually allowed to be there as he passed away from this world.
Mom called the local pharmacy, who didn't know about Dad's condition and that he passed. They said many of their employees, and regular customers, have been asking where he was. Everyone was saddened. They put out a board explaining what had happened and why Dad sat outside as Santa every year. So many left donations of cash. Some, including employees there, purchased toys and donated them too. The Manager at Walgreens even donated toys in Dad's memory. Letters of condolences and donations in Dad's memory came in almost every day. We were worried if we would have enough toys for the next Christmas Party. I can say now that our supply of toys is overflowing.
He was an example of how to be a real man. I can only hope that I can grow into a man who is worthy of filling his shoes.

I just turned 35 - not sure if I'm really a "young man" anymore, and who this poem is for, but this speech cleared up a lot of toxicity in my mind. Thanks - it was beautiful.

"True manliness is tender and loving. False manliness, cold and hard" Very wise words from this True Man.

The difference between toxic masculinity and wholesome masculinity, made plain. It is vital this generation remember that masculinity itself is not toxic, and that a good nation is built and defended by good men.

This poem is not just for young, but for all men. It takes time to be a true man.

It takes courage to be a kind man .

I'm 61 and gained a lot from this. I think sometimes we need these words even more as we grow older. Reminders of how we should be as good men. Examples for the younger.

The greatest want of the world is the want of men, men who in their inmost souls are true and honest, men who cannot be bought or sold, men who do not fear to call sin by it's right name, men whose conscience is as true to duty as a needle is to the pole, men who would stand for the right though the heavens would fall
Ellen G White

And a man, a man provides. And he does it even when he's not appreciated, or respected, or even loved. He simply bears up and he does it. Because he's a man.
- Gus Fring

True wisdom that is as relevant today as ever. Too many toxic, arrogant macho men out there these days who think they're "real men" but in truth are cowards & bullies. Thank you for sharing this inspiring truth!

This speech should be shown to every young man in the world

"Such men in their homes and their private life have a womanly gentleness."
Don't often hear lines like this from people who preach masculinity. I very much appreciate and applaud it.

Yes sir, may the age of man bring a refreshing breath. Stay strong men

This is what the young men need to hear and see today. I have been searching for guidance for so long. Thank you.

May every man that hears this at their moment of need be safe, loved, respected and cared for the way we as men should do for all.

This, along with "If-" by Rudyard Kipling and TR's "The Man in the Arena," is now easily one of my favorites on this channel. On top of all those being wonderful messages, the narrator is phenomenal. God, I wish I had a voice like Shane Morris!

"Strive to be better than your former self, not your fellow man." - the wise, the kind, and the old

Conservative men need to listen to this daily. Being a man is not just about being tough.

True manliness is conquering oneself by becoming one with the monster inside all of us! Choices have consequences!! Pray you make the right choice!!!

I had the honor of having a role model that taught me this. He was a bodybuilder and could easily by look be considered one of false manliness. But I never have met anyone so quick to stand for those looked down on and protect the weak. And when I sent him this video and said it reminded me of him it made him cry. Thank you Rudy, for showing me when I was young what a man should be❤️

A man follows the Truth no matter what the outcome. If he shall lose his possessions, his livlihood, status, family and even his own life; he stays the narrow path. People will ridicule him, spit on him, tear at his flesh and he will stand firm because his foundation is unshakeable.

True manliness is one that nurtures, false manliness is one that destroys.

I lost someone in my life that told me the reason they were leaving me is because I'm a Boy, less than a Man and that they were looking for a real Man. Today having listened to this amazing and powerful speech I realize that for a long while I've been a Man for a while I've been living by the Code of True Manliness. My Mother is an amazing woman who thought me all my values and I should've realized that at that moment. Thank you for this.

I was fortunate enough to be taught this philosophy by my late father.

I always felt the same. Real men stand up for what's right and protect Women. We have the love of humanity in our Hearts. Any Man who hurts Women is a Coward. And I will fight them.

A Man
by Edgar Albert Guest
A man doesn't whine at his losses.
A man doesn't whimper and fret,
Or rail at the weight of his crosses
And ask life to rear him a pet.
A man doesn't grudgingly labor
Or look upon toil as a blight;
A man doesn't sneer at his neighbor
Or sneak from a cause that is right.
A man doesn't sulk when another
Succeeds where his efforts have failed;
Doesn't keep all his praise for the brother
Whose glory is publicly hailed;
And pass by the weak and the humble
As though they were not of his clay;
A man doesn't ceaselessly grumble
When things are not going his way.
A man looks on woman as tender
And gentle, and stands at her side
At all times to guard and defend her,
And never to scorn or deride.
A man looks on life as a mission.
To serve, just so far as he can;
A man holds his noblest ambition
On earth is to live as a man.

Now manliness to some means ignoring oppression while becoming an profitable oppressor... Amazing speech, whoever is reading this, good luck out there, God bless and keep you as you spread love in this world, peace be with you friends...

Since watching this channel's videos my life has changed drastically I'm better at think and taking action I'm wiser i control my emotions better, I'm so thankful I found this channel

👑In a world full of anxieties, this verse is for you tonight, “I will both lie down in peace, and sleep; For You alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety.” Psalms 4:8

This poem is perfect. This is the man I want to become.

The dear person that's reading this, we don't know each other but I wish you all the best in life❤ don't ever blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious and a key to a happy life...

Those are some of the most powerful words I’ve ever heard spoken. I’m not going to stop thinking about this

A person's worth is measured by the worth of what they value. I believe in working hard for what means the most to you. To put your time, energy and passion all in for what's important to you.

I have much to work on myself, I'm half way there. Im glad I heard this

“When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways” ~ 1 Cor 13:11

I love these words for the men out there. This bit of writing has had a calming effect on me today. I've had the pleasure of knowing a few men who may have read this message! Men are lovely too.

I am in no meaning of true manliness but only a worthless being who doesn’t truly know on how to be kind & caring, thank you for this video it help me think a lot.

True manliness is when you are ready to evaporate as a life today, for the sake of other lives. It is when you can consume all within the scope of "now", and with that consumption, are able to produce an insight of the best possible tomorrow. It is the discipline, to execute all actions required to fulfill the prerequisites of shaping the future according to the insight gathered.
In a simple sentence, it is to be on the front for mankind, with the awareness of our now and a drive to creating the best possible tomorrow. Any man doing this, is at the peak of masculinity.

A poem of necessity for today’s America.

"Loneliness is the price you pay when you start to improve yourself."
They're truly golden words❤🎉👍

Thank you Redfrost Motivation for reviving in me the love of poetry. I am getting to know of so many poets and their works that I did not know existed. As far as this poem is concerned I cannot believe that The poet passed away in 1880. His words are so relevant today.

Our thoughts create our life and our future..
Choose wisely what you allow yourself to dwell mentally upon..

I have those struggles now, im not really a kind person nor do I feel a lot of empathy. But I've been trying to learn to be humble and less angry. I pray on it sometimes when I remember to pray. I have my demons and my temptations that I battle daily but I dont give up. I need to conquer those before I can learn humility and kindness. I do protect the weak wherever possible and stand for what is right. And Im learning and practicing holding my tongue. I did not have a great father or older brother so Im having to learn these things at 33. Its tough but I have a good woman who teaches me these things. But at times I feel we are polar opposites on issues. Which brings up my bitter side and my decisions on matters leans to the violent side whereas she leans on the non confrontational side. But she is very empathetic and sympathetic and kind. So she calms me down many times. I have a long way to go but with every year that passes Im getting better.

Believe you can and you're halfway there.

I am crying. It is as if the voice was meant for this piece.

“We who are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak” are words to live by. If you’re able, and willing, do something to help those unable or unwilling to help themselves. Bury yourself, plant your convictions like roots so no storm may topple you

AMEN to this, More of this is NEEDED in the WORLD TODAY as much as at ANYTIME !!!

These words remind me of my father and the lessons he gave to me as a young boy; moderation in all things, it's easier to be cruel than to be kind, and to always lend a helping hand. I can only hope that I can continue live up to his expectations. I miss you every day, pop.

"Dreams are made for those who really lives".

What a man should be a monster who is in control. Always aiming to the highest good he can conceive of, always willing to sacrifice for the betterment of those who depend on him.

Amazing. Every man should be like this, and every woman too. Every human being should.

One who is truly amazing is the one who is honest and kind not lying or gossiping

Kindness is NOT weakness.

What beautiful truths. Someone truly strong doesn't need to prove his strength. Kindness and gentleness are qualities that when present in the strong make them far more than human.

Every cruel man should hear this poem and cry their toxicity out when they understand how wrong they've been living.

James Freeman Clarke was a great American mind. An influential New England Unitarian minister, he’s a personal historical friend of mine.

So true! The world is beautiful because of many true gentlemen and fair ladies around us. 🎉😊 Am I one among them? At least I remind myself trying everyday.

Do not let society take your masculinity away and call it toxic. Men must be men again, good men, leaders not followers one who can't be bought nor sold

It’s what I was taught as a kid by every adult in my life 💪🏾 Treat every mother’s son fair

Narrator is the real man who make these ideas very intersting to listen.

This is a brilliant poem. Beautiful motivation. I think in South Africa all young men, including men young at heart, must listen to this poem. Maybe we will turn the tide on the national scourge of killing and abuse of children and women.

I had great examples of this in my life. But missed it until recently. Before today, I wouldn't have even been in a place to open my ears, mind, and heart a little. To deal with stuff, I just shut these things down. Called it all weakness, thinking some brittle unchanging form was stone. Instead of a sealed off pile of snow. Sent adrift at the coming slight breeze. Thank you for today sir, from the future.

Real strength is not putting down others to make oneself feel better.

I agree with kindness in your heart. Big questions about COMPANIES, no examples needed. Intelligence is the only way to win at this ongoing battle.

The ultimate measure of man is not where he stand in times of comfort and convenience but where he stands in times of controversy and challenges .-Maryin J Luther King
And from a woman who I loved ' a true measure of man is in what he does .Period .'
'A true man is a man of wisdom and who knows his top priority is his family and friends '
Ellen J Barner

Words from the Heart and soul Beautiful James F Clarke ❤ Thank you

This has cleared up a lot of toxicity in me I got this message yesterday but this poem reinforces it

My dad was a police officer his whole life. He was broad and burly but always loving and tender at home. Made my friends laugh and talked to everyone.
I was a kid, maybe around 6-7. Me and dad was in town to buy Christmas gifts.
A big dangerous looking man walked straight up to us, reach out his hand and presented himself to my father who greated him with a smile.
They chatted for a bit and then he turned to me.
- is this man your father?
- yes.
He then told be about the time my father arrested him. They had wrestled and fought pretty hard untill finally my dad had handcuffed him.
After that my dad has sat him up and then sat down beside him and talked to him for about 20min while waiting for backup.
- That talk changed my life and haven't committed a crime since. Be proud kid.
Several times during my childhood similar situations happened now then.
People he arrested had an enormous respect for him from what i discern both his strength and ability to fight but most of all his human side.
He died before my first son was born but I strive everyday to follow his example and set the same for my boy

That is exactly what I always say: "Masculinity is to protect the weak and to stand up for the good and the right! And not take what you want by force without considering loss!"
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Because to be a good person is not a weakness, on the contrary it requires a lot more strength than to be a bad person!!!

Today, it’s hard to be a man. But we must man up. It’s starts with responsibilities and not accepting a partner that isn’t willing to sacrifice with you. Together we stand, and a good woman that has your back is golden, together you can have your dreams.

We must not forget, we too must defend ourselves from those who would remove the power to defend others.❤

True Masculinity.
All explained in detail. Never surrender your male traits.
Become the real masculine man
The art to masculinity by james Francis it is essential reading for any man

This is such a beautiful and true poem🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

True Manliness is capable of Self-denial and Renunciation. False Manliness is Self-Willed and Self- Indulgent. This just about Sums it All👌👌

Moved me to tears and touched me in a way that I thought was impossible.

Women, tuo, shall learn a lot from this Universal Message.

The virtues of a true man, it melted my heart😭💪🏻

Thank you so much for this. I thought for many years loving as much as I do was unmanly.

His voice is so calming 😊

Even though I am a poor excuse for a Christian, I can feel the truth in these words. The King of Kings was neither a warrior nor a conqueror. He was a simple carpenter, a teacher and a healer.

"True manliness" has evolved to mean that you know to focus on yourself and to take care of yourself. No more being misguided by the expectations of the society. Cause no harm; but just because you are a man, you do not have to assume the role of a provider and protector. You are an individual and you need to value yourself.

True manliness and True Feminine are humane, we are all humans first and foremost and that's beautiful.

Don’t worry about being a real man. Worry about being a good father, good son, good husband, good boyfriend, brother, nephew, grandfather, grandson, uncle, neighbour, etc, and you will automatically become a real man.

Strength. Wisdom. Love.

Hey, you. Whoever’s reading this, this is your sign. Everything’s gonna be okay. You did not come this far to give up. I believe in you. 🙏🏻✨💖

I can listen to his voice all day and all night sooo soothing and calm

So inspiring

My grandfather once told me "do what you love, and love what you do". Now i'm understand a lot about the meaning of his word. I'm born Man, so i will decide to do what i love, or love the things that i do, people can't control me because i'm the only one that have a power to control myself. I want more, i want to improve, want to do my hobby, something that i want the most, i hate work but i'll love it, i don't want to study but i'll do it so i'll love it to, i'm accepting myself, who am i, and i respect this journey of life that lead me to be a better Man.

We are the chosen ones for this to find us today.

My daddy a silence King of our lions den lol was a man who always showed emotions behind closed doors, but in the face of the world he was a protector to women and children, at 6'6 he was a man with a lions roars, loud when needed but soft when handling those who need a cub.
My Dad never had that true chance to be the LION he should have become the Principle to our family, but now it falls upon me.

Every word contained within this poem is true for my beloved prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him. He was a mercy to humankind.

matter of fact manliness itself is the depth of kindness an ultimate tender form to selflessly act on it .

Such great inspiration 🙏🙏🙏🙏

This is very valuable, I wish I would have seen this like 10 years ago. It would have saved me a lot of trouble. That is the issue with education today, wisdom needs to find its place.

Soo beautiful.

As a guardian to my younger brother I worry what kind of men will he be without a father figure I'm going to gift him this poem to help him on his journey as he grows to be a magnificent man.

Especially for those who use the 'Wolf vs sheep' philosophy to justify selfishness. But I have lots to learn myself.

A good Christian approach to life! I knew this but it seemed to slip away over the years. I need to get back to my Bible.