My discord/before messaging me (READ PLEASE)
6 months ago
I want to make a journal addressing getting messages, it's easier to list things in a journal than put it all on my profile.
1. I prefer conversations to go comments > notes > discord, you can note me or DM me on discord if you want but please don't send a vague message like "hi," I don't know you or how to respond to that so make it clear why you want to talk
2. I am not going to carry a conversation, if I want to make small talk or start a discussion I will message one of my friends and not someone I barely know. Do not message me with "how is your day," "what are you doing right now," etc., I will not respond
3. Please don't message me asking me to commission you, I commission artists that I find myself & will reach out for a commission if I want to. Pressuring me to commission you is frustrating & makes me less likely to actually commission you
4. I don't like to RP, ESPECIALLY when it's erotic/NSFW, please please don't contact me to RP/no "hugs you/nuzzles you" type messages. I'm not my fursona, I'm asexual & messages making sexual/romantic advances make me uncomfortable. Don't send sexual messages unless it's involved in a commission I'm getting with/from you (Also DO NOT ASK ME FOR NUDES/VIDEO/ETC!! I hate being on camera in general & when strangers try to push me to expose myself on camera/record sexual audio, it makes me VERY uncomfortable)
5. I'm open to conversation(IF you have a topic in mind or a question to ask,) but preferably either in comments or discord. Ideally don't ask about my fursona as a character or what their backstory is, I do have a story for them & have for years, I will very likely get art related to that in the future but for the time being I don't discuss it outside of close friend circles. If you want to talk about the character design & its inspiration I welcome that
I may add to this in the future, for now these are the biggest issues I've faced when receiving messages, I'm a friendly person so as long as you don't plan on doing anything I've mentioned here, I'm happy to reply
Note me (or comment on this journal & i will note you) for my discord username, you can add me IF you actually have something to discuss with me
1. I prefer conversations to go comments > notes > discord, you can note me or DM me on discord if you want but please don't send a vague message like "hi," I don't know you or how to respond to that so make it clear why you want to talk
2. I am not going to carry a conversation, if I want to make small talk or start a discussion I will message one of my friends and not someone I barely know. Do not message me with "how is your day," "what are you doing right now," etc., I will not respond
3. Please don't message me asking me to commission you, I commission artists that I find myself & will reach out for a commission if I want to. Pressuring me to commission you is frustrating & makes me less likely to actually commission you
4. I don't like to RP, ESPECIALLY when it's erotic/NSFW, please please don't contact me to RP/no "hugs you/nuzzles you" type messages. I'm not my fursona, I'm asexual & messages making sexual/romantic advances make me uncomfortable. Don't send sexual messages unless it's involved in a commission I'm getting with/from you (Also DO NOT ASK ME FOR NUDES/VIDEO/ETC!! I hate being on camera in general & when strangers try to push me to expose myself on camera/record sexual audio, it makes me VERY uncomfortable)
5. I'm open to conversation(IF you have a topic in mind or a question to ask,) but preferably either in comments or discord. Ideally don't ask about my fursona as a character or what their backstory is, I do have a story for them & have for years, I will very likely get art related to that in the future but for the time being I don't discuss it outside of close friend circles. If you want to talk about the character design & its inspiration I welcome that
I may add to this in the future, for now these are the biggest issues I've faced when receiving messages, I'm a friendly person so as long as you don't plan on doing anything I've mentioned here, I'm happy to reply
Note me (or comment on this journal & i will note you) for my discord username, you can add me IF you actually have something to discuss with me