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The nature of attraction and relationships
2 years ago
It's been a little bit since I posted a journal and I recently commented on a journal where someone was asking about "Why do girls always fall for the bad boys"
So with this in mind for the nature of this journal, I will try to keep it as simple and brief as I can seeing how everyone's beliefs and ideas of a relationship will vary. This is why this particular topic is so hard to talk about.
So let's get into this!
Q: Why do girls always fall for the bad boys?
My A: I think this is a large misconception on the part of many guys today. Most of us girls do not tolerate stuck up and "bad" men. Though some of us end up with such a guy at least once in our life, some more than others, I believe that most of us who do end up with such a guy tend to mistakenly fall for them because at the surface they appear strong and confident. When we start to dig into the surface of their personality and we start to see the "shit" they are, it can be increasingly difficult to get away from them. In some cases this is where a relationship goes bad or abusive. That is a discussion for another journal. If you know of a girl who is in such a relationship it's probably very likely they are trying to find a way out of it.
Q: What do girls look for in a partner?
My A: This is what I meant by this is not a simple "This is the answer" kind of journal. That is going to differ from each of us. Myself, what I look for first is someone who is personally confident and sure about themselves, someone who is mentally all upstairs and knows how to conduct their lives. Last thing I want is someone who is going to break down mentally and emotionally when shit hits the fan in life. Next, I don't look for money. I know some do, but what I want is someone who is willing to make some changes in life to meet me in the middle. We can work life out together. From there it's all instinct. Finding out what you all want in a relationship. It is going to take social skills and a whole lot of time, so take your time and do it right.
In a summary, if you are all seeking someone to meet your going to have to get off your computer and get out of your house. You are going to have to hit the ground and start getting out there in the real world. Your not going to find someone inside of a chatroom or a game. The guy I am seeing now is someone I have known for a great number of years. We started out as friends who met at a boating and recreation tradeshow. You are going to be more likely to meet someone when you start coming out of the cave and get into something interesting outside in the community!
I hope this helps and feel free to comment below. I will try to answer comments as time permits!
So with this in mind for the nature of this journal, I will try to keep it as simple and brief as I can seeing how everyone's beliefs and ideas of a relationship will vary. This is why this particular topic is so hard to talk about.
So let's get into this!
Q: Why do girls always fall for the bad boys?
My A: I think this is a large misconception on the part of many guys today. Most of us girls do not tolerate stuck up and "bad" men. Though some of us end up with such a guy at least once in our life, some more than others, I believe that most of us who do end up with such a guy tend to mistakenly fall for them because at the surface they appear strong and confident. When we start to dig into the surface of their personality and we start to see the "shit" they are, it can be increasingly difficult to get away from them. In some cases this is where a relationship goes bad or abusive. That is a discussion for another journal. If you know of a girl who is in such a relationship it's probably very likely they are trying to find a way out of it.
Q: What do girls look for in a partner?
My A: This is what I meant by this is not a simple "This is the answer" kind of journal. That is going to differ from each of us. Myself, what I look for first is someone who is personally confident and sure about themselves, someone who is mentally all upstairs and knows how to conduct their lives. Last thing I want is someone who is going to break down mentally and emotionally when shit hits the fan in life. Next, I don't look for money. I know some do, but what I want is someone who is willing to make some changes in life to meet me in the middle. We can work life out together. From there it's all instinct. Finding out what you all want in a relationship. It is going to take social skills and a whole lot of time, so take your time and do it right.
In a summary, if you are all seeking someone to meet your going to have to get off your computer and get out of your house. You are going to have to hit the ground and start getting out there in the real world. Your not going to find someone inside of a chatroom or a game. The guy I am seeing now is someone I have known for a great number of years. We started out as friends who met at a boating and recreation tradeshow. You are going to be more likely to meet someone when you start coming out of the cave and get into something interesting outside in the community!
I hope this helps and feel free to comment below. I will try to answer comments as time permits!
KingFoxette
you look so prety in the profile photo hehe
and I like so much your fursona 💖